Want a fun way to spend date night? Try these 100 Never have I ever questions for couples. You may be surprised by what you discover.
When was the last time you asked your husband a question beyond, “Can you get take-out on the way home?”
If you’ve been with your partner for a while, you might be interested to know that adopting an attitude of curiosity towards your partner is one of the key things you can do to keep your relationship fresh and new.
And while these days you might think you know anything and everything about their thoughts, feelings and experiences, chances are you actually don’t. While I wouldn’t say after over ten years together that I learn something new about my husband every day, I DO every week.
Asking questions and keeping interested is a fun way of doing that.
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My favorite questions are those that have a game element – like Would you rather and How well do you know me questions.
Never have I ever questions also fit into that category.
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How to play Never have I ever
The game works by you saying a statement about something that you’ve never done and then the other person saying if they have or haven’t done the thing.
For example, Never have I ever eaten a tub of ice cream in one sitting. If your partner HAS, they say, I have.
They then tell the story of what happened.
You can play it as a drinking game where if you have done the thing, you take a drink. I don’t drink, so playing for chocolates or candy is more my scene.
If you play with a food item the first one to eat all their sweet treats loses.
You could also play it as a fun and flirty version where you kiss each other, touch each other, or take off an item of clothing when you have done the thing.
How to pick Never have I ever questions for couples
Now personally I have seen some truly awful Never have I ever questions for couples.
Let me ask you this before we start – how much FUN will be had if you ask a question like, Never have I ever thought about leaving you? or Never have I ever deleted a text from someone I didn’t want you to see and they say I have?
The answer is no fun, no fun at all, apart from the neighbors who will no doubt enjoy the resulting performance.
Because in reality, even if just for a second, most people have wondered about what life would be like without their partner, and many have been the recipient of something they wouldn’t necessarily want to share, so if you fit into this category you’re a) either going to lie or b) tell the truth and make your partner feel awful.
So let’t not even go there.
You want this to be entertaining.
However the fun in Never have I ever is also the “really? You did that?” fall off the sofa kind of exclamation, so let’s face it, some of them have to be a little bit dirty.
Just in case you’re not comfortable with those kind of questions, I’ve kept them pretty safe (I think!) and have them under a separate heading below so you can skip them if you want to – or go straight to them if you want to.
Whatever works for you.
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Never have I ever questions for couples
Never have I ever hitchhiked
Never have I ever sent a meal back in a restaurant
Never have I ever sent an email to my boss that I regretted
Never have I ever swam in my underwear
Never have I ever lied to your mother
Never have I ever laughed inappropriately at a high stakes occasion
Never have I ever said I liked a meal I hated
Never have I ever been in a drama production
Never have I ever talked my way out of a ticket
Never have I ever cried or got angry to a customer service representative
Never have I ever kissed a celebrity
Never have I ever stood someone up
Never have I ever bombed on a test
Never have I ever been in a physical fight
Never have I ever worn something to please someone else
Never have I ever bet on the races
Never have I ever faked a sick day
Never have I ever busted a zip
Never have I ever deliberately taken the best piece
Never have I ever cried in a movie theater
Never have I ever reported someone to the police
Never have I ever faked a note for school
Never have I ever used someone else’s toothbrush
Never have I ever pretended to be someone else on the phone
Never have I ever been hypnotized
Never have I ever called emergency services
Never have I ever opened someone else’s mail
Never have I ever tripped over in public
Never have I ever said I’d go somewhere then just not show up
Never have I ever been in an ambulance
Never have I ever walked in on my parents
Never have I ever lied when someone asked if they looked fat
Never have I ever gone to the movies on my own
Never have I ever been dumped by text
Never have I ever leapt out of a taxi
Never have I ever shaved my hair off
Never have I ever ruined a wedding
Never have I ever faked being sick to get out of something
Never have I ever done something I thought I would never do
Never have I ever gotten a speeding ticket
Never have I ever walked out of a movie / performance / game
Never have I ever peed in the ocean
Never have I ever stayed awake all night
Never have I ever forgotten my mom’s birthday
Never have I ever ruined a vacation
Never have I ever called someone the wrong name on a date
Never have I ever fainted in public
Never have I ever wet my pants / pooped myself
Never have I ever asked when the baby was due to someone who wasn’t pregnant
Never have I ever kept quiet when I was undercharged
Never have I ever done a runner after a car accident
Never have I ever eaten offal
Never have I ever had food poisoning
Never have I ever broken something and not confessed
Never have I ever broken a bone
Never have I ever sent a message to the wrong person with terrible consequences
Never have I ever enacted revenge
Never have I ever visited a psychic
Never have I ever gotten stitches
Never have I ever accidentally started a fire
Never have I ever been in an ambulance
Never have I ever said “I love you” when I didn’t
Never have I ever been with a friend’s ex
Never have I ever gone for two days without a shower
Never have I ever regifted a present
Never have I ever forgotten someone’s name
Never have I ever broken a window
Never have I ever done karaoke
Never have I ever wished on a star
Never have I ever gatecrashed a wedding
Never have I ever pretended I couldn’t hear to avoid doing something
Never have I ever had used undies get stuck in my pants then fall out in public
Never have I ever pretended I remembered someone when I didn’t
Never have I ever been in a talent show
Never have I ever got a flat tire
Never have I ever said I was in a relationship when I wasn’t
Never have I ever given a fake number
Never have I ever lied on a dating profile
Never have I ever cried at work
Never have I ever used a dating app
Dirty Never have I ever questions for couples
Never have I ever waxed it all off
Never have I ever done it in a pool
Never have I ever faked it
Never have I ever had an embarrassing or awful experience in bed
Never have I ever done it in a car
Never have I ever had a friend with benefits
Never have I ever done it with others in the room
Never have I ever had a one night stand
Never have I ever hooked up with a friend and regretted it
Never have I ever had a crush on a work colleague
Never have I ever picked someone up at a bar
Never have I ever slept with someone more than 10 years older than me
Never have I ever slept with someone less than 10 years younger than me
Never have I ever been to a strip club
Never have I ever made a naughty video
Never have I ever made out with someone of the same / opposite gender (depending on current relationship)
Never have I ever been to an adult store
Never have I ever used a special toy
Never have I ever kicked someone out in the morning
Never have I ever slept with someone I wasn’t attracted to
These 100 Never have I ever questions for couples make for a fun game or date night activity. It can be as flirty or dirty as you dare. Just remember to stick to your comfort level!
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Stacey
Friday 28th of April 2023
Since there isn't any other reviews... Really appreciate the more respectable but still tastefully interesting/ risky questions too! Especially with today's society. No I'm not an old woman and am actually in my 20's but was raised with with decency and respect/ self respect! Really appreciate that this isn't too vulgar and over exaggerated, especially if playing in a group scenario.
Thank you!
Katie
Monday 8th of May 2023
Thank you Stacey! I really appreciate the time you took to comment. Getting the balance right with these questions is tricky, so I'm glad they worked for you!