He said she said questions

He said she said is a bridal shower game that shows how much you know the bride and groom. It’s also fun to play at a significant wedding anniversary or even at your wedding reception or vow renewal.

If you’re looking for a fun game to play at a bridal shower, wedding reception or anniversary party, he said she said has to be up there.

While the game was originally quotes from the couple, it has evolved to include more general questions. However the key objective is the same – work out which member of the couple is being talked about!

Setting up the he said she said game

Before the bridal shower or party, compile a list of questions or statements about the couple’s relationship, personalities and preferences.

Either use the questions below, selecting those which are the most relevant for the couple in question, or using memories and knowledge of the couple, create your own.

You will want 15-20 questions only to keep the game fast-paced and entertaining.

You may want to write down a story behind each question to share after the correct answer is revealed.

Decide how you will collect responses. For example, will you create a game sheet where they circle he or she, bride or groom, or names if they are a same sex couple next to the question? Or will you hand out pieces of paper and get them to number a list?

You can make it as aesthetically pleasing or basic as you want.

Make sure you have enough sheets for each player and pens as well.

You’ll also need a prize.

Playing the he said she said game

Divide the guests into teams or play individually, depending on the group size and preference.

Read out each question or statement one by one, with guests recording their answers.

After each question, reveal the correct answer. Share the story behind the statement if you have one.

Award points to the guests or teams with correct answers, and at the end of the game, celebrate the winner!

He said she said questions

1. Who is the one most likely to plan vacations?
2. Who is the one that loves watching tv the most?
3. Who is the more adventurous traveler?
4. Who is the better navigator when they go on road trips?
5. Who is the one that enjoys reading romantic novels?
6. Who is the lighter packer when they go on trips?
7. Who is the more competitive one during game nights with friends?
8. Who is the one that loves to surprise the other with gifts?
9. Who is the better listener?
10. Who is the tidiest one in the relationship?
11. Who is the one who proposed?
12. Who is the more sentimental one when it comes to keepsakes and mementos?
13. Who is the more patient one when they have to wait in long lines or queues?
14. Who is the gift wrapper when they give presents?
15. Who is the one that enjoys playing board games?
16. Who is the one that loves to cook new recipes?
17. Who is the one who takes the longest in the shower?
18. Who is the one that can’t resist indulging in sweets and desserts?
19. Who is the more outgoing one when it comes to making new friends?
20. Who is the one that remembers their first movie date and what movie they watched?
21. Who is the biggest shopaholic between them?
22. Who is the one who initiated their first contact or date?
23. Who is the tech-savvy one in the relationship?
24. Who is the more organized person between them?
25. Who is the better singer among them?
26. Who is the more competitive person in the relationship?
27. Who is the one with the best sense of direction?
28. Who is the more spontaneous one in the relationship?
29. Who is the better planner among them?
30. Who is the one more likely to cry at the wedding?
31. Who is the one that enjoys writing love letters and heartfelt messages?
32. Who is the more patient one when they` have to assemble furniture or do DIY projects?
33. Who is the one that remembers the first restaurant we dined at together?
34. Who is the better negotiator when it comes to deals and discounts?
35. Who is in charge of the remote control?
36. Who is the more organized one when planning parties and gatherings?
37. Who is the one who knew the other was the one after their first meeting?
38. Who is the one who considers themselves the better cook in the relationship?
39. Who is the one more likely to be early to an appointment?
40. Who is the messier one in the relationship?
41. Who is the one that loves doing DIY projects?
42. Who is the hopeless romantic in the relationship?
43. Who is the one more likely to deal with spiders or rodents?
44. Who is the one who said ‘I love you’ first?
45. Who is the more adventurous eater in the relationship?
46. Who is the first one to get up in the morning?
47. Who is the one who claims to have fallen in love at first sight?
48. Who is the bigger animal lover?
49. Who is the more forgetful one in the relationship?
50. Who is the better driver?
51. Who is the social butterfly in the relationship?
52. Who is the one who tends to apologize first after an argument?
53. Who is the more patient person in the relationship?
54. Who is the one who always remembers their anniversary without a reminder?
55. Who is the more extroverted person between them?
56. Who is the more serious one in the relationship?
57. Who is the more creative person between them?
58. Who is the one who initiated the first kiss?
59. Who is the one who enjoys watching rom-coms?
60. Who is the one who enjoys doing physical activities?

Playing he said she said is a fun activity when you’re celebrating the love of a couple you care for.

These most likely to questions can also be used for he said she said. Other question games that can work for showers and celebrations are never have I ever questions, how well do you know me questions and yes or no questions.

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