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100 would you rather questions for couples

These would you rather questions for couples will help you see your partner in a whole new light! Whether they’re simple fun, up close and personal, getting deep about relationships, a little bit dirty, or a challenge to answer, these questions will give you hours of entertainment!

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Wanting a fun conversation with your partner? How about you ask each other some of these would you rather questions for couples?

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Using would you rather questions

Would you rather questions, also known as this or that questions, are questions that present you with two choices. 

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Most of the time these choices are of two equally unappealing things. However, they can also be two equally appealing things. They should be related in some way.

You can ask would you rather questions in a whole variety of situations: on a road trip, on date night, when you’re at home relaxing – any time you want to have some fun. (Although the dirty would you rather questions are often best saved for when you can act out your preferences!).

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And because no one wants to see any of those situations go bad, I’ve tried to make these would you rather questions interesting but not super gross or uncomfortable (that’s to say, there’s nothing like, “Would you rather sleep with my mom or my sister?”). So you can relax there.

But of course feel free to skip any you don’t like the sound of – with 100 to pick from, you should still have plenty. 

Fun would you rather questions for couples

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These fun would you rather questions for couples will have you both thinking about scenarios that are a combo of cute, embarrassing, or even downright disgusting.

  1. Would you rather hear a baby laugh or feel a cat purr?
  2. Would you rather smell a rose or watch a sunset?
  3. Would you rather have chocolate or caramel?
  4. Would you rather know how to juggle or how to do magic tricks?
  5. Would you rather be able to be invisible or to read people’s minds?
  6. Would you rather have your favorite food every day of the year or not eat it at all for a year?
  7. Would you rather be the funniest person in the room or the best looking person in the room?
  8. Would you rather have salty buttered popcorn or sweet caramel popcorn?
  9. Would you rather have a booger in your nose or something stuck between your teeth?
  10. Would you rather wear dirty underwear or no underwear?
  11. Would you rather eat grasshoppers or tarantulas?
  12. Would you rather fly to the moon or visit the depths of the ocean?
  13. Would you rather be able to highland dance or hip hop dance?
  14. Would you rather be besties with the boss or the receptionist?
  15. Would you rather be attacked by a lion or a shark?
  16. Would you rather know all the capitals in the world or all the currencies in the world?
  17. Would you rather be a dog or a cat?
  18. Would you rather see a rat or a snake?
  19. Would you rather eat haggis or kidneys?
  20. Would you rather be inside when it’s raining or outside when it’s sunny?

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Personal would you rather questions for couples

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These personal would you rather questions for couples will have you learning things about your spouse that you didn’t know before.

  1. Would you rather earn a huge sum of money doing work you hate or a small sum of money doing work you love?
  2. Would you rather have no Facebook for a year or read no books for a year?
  3. Would you rather always be late or always be early?
  4. Would you rather spend $5000 or save $5000?
  5. Would you rather be able to sing or be able to draw?
  6. Would you rather be blind or be deaf?
  7. Would you rather be a skilled writer or be a skilled speaker?
  8. Would you rather visit Europe or South East Asia?
  9. Would you rather be super intelligent or gifted in sports?
  10. Would you rather celebrate a significant birthday with a party or with your spouse?
  11. Would you rather have burgers for dinner or fine cuisine for dinner?
  12. Would you rather work from home or from the office?
  13. Would you rather have your phone or your car?
  14. Would you rather have the most loyal dog in the world or friends?
  15. Would you rather learn from your mistakes or never make any mistakes?
  16. Would you rather lose an arm or a leg?
  17. Would you rather be underweight or overweight?
  18. Would you rather cheat in a test and get 100% or not cheat and get 30%?
  19. Would you rather forget the worst moment of your life or remember the best moment of your life?
  20. Would you rather be 20 for the rest of your life or 40 for the rest of your life?

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Relationship would you rather questions for couples

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These would you rather relationship questions will help you understand how your spouse thinks about your relationship.

  1. Would you rather go out for date night or do date night at home?
  2. Would you rather have date night every week or date night every month?
  3. Would you rather do dinner and movies or play 10 pin bowling?
  4. Would you rather have a kiss every day or a hug every day?
  5. Would you rather be intimate three times a week or once a week?
  6. Would you rather have an emergency fund or have a travel fund?
  7. Would you rather exercise together or watch a movie together?
  8. Would you rather scream at each other or give each other the silent treatment?
  9. Would you rather have the same fight every time or different fights every time?
  10. Would you rather tell the truth and hurt your partner or lie and not hurt your partner?
  11. Would you rather your parents didn’t like your partner or your friends didn’t like your partner?
  12. Would you rather keep our life together exactly the same or change aspects of our life?
  13. Would you rather have a consistently happy marriage but die in ten years or have an up and down marriage for the next 30 years?
  14. Would you rather do something nice for your partner or buy something nice for your partner?
  15. Would you rather your partner be clingy or jealous?
  16. Would you rather forget your partner’s birthday or your wedding anniversary?
  17. Would you rather love your partner more or have them love you more?
  18. Would you rather go on a fun date or be given an expensive gift?
  19. Would you rather have a great relationship where things aren’t so great in the bedroom or a bad relationship where it’s great in the bedroom?
  20. Would you rather have eloped or had a wedding with 500 guests?
  21. Would you rather pass away before your partner or after your partner?

Dirty would you rather questions for couples

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These dirty would you rather questions will give you some fun ideas for how to spice things up in the bedroom.

  1. Would you rather be dirty in the bedroom or romantic?
  2. Would you rather be on top or on the bottom?
  3. Would you rather do it from behind or on top?
  4. Would you rather give oral or receive oral?
  5. Would you rather dominate in bed or be dominated?
  6. Would you rather tie your spouse up or be tied up?
  7. Would you rather make love three times a day for a month or not make love for a month?
  8. Would you rather make love in your bed or on the couch?
  9. Would you rather make love in your backyard or in a car?
  10. Would you rather watch someone making love or be watched making love?
  11. Would you rather be kissed on the mouth or on the breasts?
  12. Would you rather lick or suck?
  13. Would you rather make love in the morning or make love at night?
  14. Would you rather have a quickie or have it last an hour?
  15. Would you rather watch erotica or read erotica?
  16. Would you rather have your belly kissed or have your thighs kissed?
  17. Would you rather make love standing up or in a sitting position?
  18. Would you rather make love on the beach or in a pool?
  19. Would you rather have your parents walk in on you or your children walk in on you?
  20. Would you rather have someone hear you making love or see you making love?

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Hard would you rather questions for couples

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These would you rather couples questions are meant to make you think just a little bit harder!

  1. Would you rather fall over in public or pass wind in public?
  2. Would you rather die quickly in a car accident but feel no pain, or slowly from cancer but be in pain?
  3. Would you rather have your heart broken or be the heartbreaker?
  4. Would you rather stop Hitler or Pol Pot?
  5. Would you rather lose your dog or your father?
  6. Would you rather be a leader or a follower?
  7. Would you rather have all the money you could desire or all the love you could desire?
  8. Would you rather euthanize your spouse yourself or have them live longer but die in pain?
  9. Would you rather get rid of 99% of the world’s population or make extinct 99% of all living creatures?
  10. Would you rather be a drug addict or an alcoholic?
  11. Would you rather lose your sense of taste or lose your sense of touch?
  12. Would you rather have world peace or unlimited wealth for yourself?
  13. Would you rather save a pregnant woman or save a baby?
  14. Would you rather live in 200 years in the past or 200 years in the future?
  15. Would you rather tell a lie for a good reason or tell the truth for a bad reason?
  16. Would you rather drop a nuclear bomb on a country or kill your only child?
  17. Would you rather end homelessness or domestic violence?
  18. Would you rather get rid of all flies or get rid of all mosquitoes?
  19. Would you rather have more time or more money?
  20. Would you rather sacrifice yourself and save the life of a child or live and cause the death of a child?

I hope you enjoyed these would you rather questions for couples.

They add a fun element to any date night, especially one at home!

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I tested each one on my husband, from the fun, personal, relationship, and dirty, to the hard, and we had lots of fun doing it (but I hope his dad never asks what he answered to number five on the hard questions!).

Try these would you rather questions for couples the next time you’re on date night, or on a road trip, or any time you want to liven up your conversation!

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Kristi balay

Friday 3rd of September 2021

Me and my husband did this and we loved it thank you

Katie

Monday 13th of September 2021

That's awesome - thank you!

Jessicalynn

Sunday 12th of July 2020

My husband and I played this questionnaire game. We loved it.

Katie

Sunday 12th of July 2020

So glad you loved it, Jessicalynn! Make sure you check out all the other questions for couples too!

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