200 positive relationship affirmations to strengthen your love

Relationship affirmations are a tool you can use in several ways to enhance your relationship with your partner – whether as mantras, in conjunction with visualization, or in journaling.

What are relationship affirmations?

Relationship affirmations are a sentence or several sentences which reinforce a desired outcome. By repeating these affirmations we aim to challenge thoughts that might not serve us. We take something spoken consciously with the aim to have it permeate the subconscious.

When affirmations are used in the context of visualization and what I call “vibing” with the state you wish to create, they become powerful tools that can shift your current reality into your desired reality.

Affirmations can also be used journal prompts which allow you to explore any limiting beliefs you may have about your relationship and again, work through them. For that reason, you’ll find 200 relationship affirmations below so there are plenty to pick from.

These affirmations are sorted into categories to enable you to narrow down your selections. Sometimes there are only a few words of difference between them – but each word holds a nuance. You will find one resonates with you more than others.

Affirmations to improve your relationship

If you’re struggling a little in your relationship or you want to work on yourself and your responses, then these positive affirmations can help.

1. I may not always feel loving, but I choose to act loving
2. I choose to act loving regardless of external circumstance
3. Every day my relationships become more loving
4. I work on my relationship every day
5. My partner and I work together to resolve conflict
6. I am committing to being loving and kind in my relationship
7. I can communicate my feelings while taking personal responsibility for them
8. I can ask for what I need in my relationship
9. I feel inspired to improve myself for this relationship
10. I accept my partner is his / her own person
11. I take responsibility for my emotions
12. I communicate in a constructive way
13. I choose to listen to my spouse before speaking out of defensiveness
14. I accept the opportunity to apologize first
15. I listen to my partner with an open mind
16. I make consistent efforts to be my best self in my relationship
17. I show appreciation for my partner daily
18. I set healthy boundaries in my relationship
19. Today I will show my partner I care for them
20. Even when we have bad days, we know we have each other’s backs
21. My partner and I are teammates, not competitors
22. My husband and I can create the marriage we want
23. I give my husband / wife the benefit of the doubt
24. I know my partner has our best interests at heart
25. I understand my partner’s needs
26. I focus on the positive in my relationship
27. I am patient with my partner
28. I support my partner’s goals and dreams
29. I show compassion to my partner
30. I am considerate of my partner’s feelings
31. I am ready to accept a happy fulfilling relationship
32. Each day is an opportunity to learn more about my spouse
33. My partner can lean on me for love and support
34. I know that no matter what, we will be okay
35. I look for ways I can make my partner’s life better
36. I seek to understand before being understood
37. I respect my wife/husband’s needs
38. I respect the person my spouse is, rather than who I want him/her to be
39. I choose not to be offended and to respond with love
40. I replace anger with compassion and understanding
41. I know my reactions are often triggered by my perception
42. It’s more important to understand and explore than be right
43. I commit to understanding the role I play in conflict
44. I focus on creating a healthy relationship
45. I can view things from my partner’s perspective
46. I show my support of my partner through my actions
47. My partner and I have healthy boundaries
48. I can calm myself when I feel flooded with emotion
49. I know improving myself improves my relationship
50. I remove the limiting beliefs that stop me from embracing love

(If you really want to focus on connecting, consider doing the 30 day marriage challenge in conjunction with these affirmations).

Affirmations for a healthy relationship

These positive affirmations for relationships will fill you with a warm, loving energy. They’re super helpful for improving your feelings of gratitude towards your loved one.

1. My marriage is a source of growth and support
2. My marriage nurtures and sustains me
3. My marriage becomes deeper and stronger every day
4. My partner always makes me feel that I am enough
5. I feel safe and secure in my marriage
6. My partner and I accept each other’s strengths and weaknesses
7. My partner and I make a great team
8. I understand my spouse, and they understand me
9. Our marriage is a precious gift
10. My partner and I lift each other up
11. I love making my husband / wife happy
12. My wife/husband is the best partner I could ever hope for
13. I love, trust, and respect my partner
14. My partner loves, trusts, and respects me
15. Together we are stronger than we are apart
16. Our relationship is founded on trust
17. I am confident that my partner is making the right choices
18. I believe my partner is doing his / her best
19. I have full confidence in my partner
20. My partner and I love spending quality time together
21. I am supportive of my partner, just as he/she is supportive of me
22. Every day with my spouse is a new adventure
23. I am a better person because of my spouse
24. I am blessed with a wonderful spouse
25. I actively work to make my marriage better
26. There are so many wonderful experiences for us to look forward to
27. I love creating shared goals with my partner
28. Together, my partner and I can get through anything
29. My partner and I are an amazing team
30. My partner and I were meant to be together
31. My partner and I feel comfortable and safe together
32. I am present with my partner
33. My partner and I talk about the things that matter
34. I appreciate the differences between me and my partner as they complement each other
35. I appreciate everything my partner does for us
36. I enjoy spending time with my partner
37. I enjoy being in a relationship with my partner
38. I have the best partner in the world
39. My partner and I are loyal to each another
40. My partner and I have fun all the time
41. I am everything my partner wanted
42. I make my partner feel comfortable and safe
43. My partner and I love to laugh together
44. I am happy and content in my relationship
45. My husband/wife and I work together to create our dream life
46. I am grateful for the amazing life my partner and I have created
47. My happy thoughts help create my happy marriage
48. My husband / wife is a wonderful person
49. I feel grateful for everything my partner does for me
50. My partner helps me be my best self
51. My partner and I are faithful and loyal
52. My spouse is my best friend
53. My partner and I share our thoughts and problems with each other
54. I am whole within myself and my partner is whole within himself
55. I experience fun, intimacy and fulfillment in my relationship
56. I communicate in a loving way with my partner
57. I respect and appreciate my partner deeply
58. I can comfortably express my needs and feelings in our relationship
59. I am free to be myself in my relationship
60. I am in a secure and loving relationship
61. My relationship brings me great joy
62. I feel so grateful for my partner
63. My partner and I are deeply connected
64. I appreciate everything that my partner does for me
65. I can share my secrets with my partner
66. My partner and I support each other
67. I can’t wait to grow old with my partner
68. I’m so grateful that I’m married to my soulmate
69. I am blessed to have a partner that I can trust
70. My partner makes me a better person
71. My marriage is a great gift in my life
72. I show my true self in my relationship
73. My relationship is a source of great fulfillment and happiness
74. I have the best partner in the world
75. I fully trust my spouse

Relationship affirmations focused on love

Love makes the world go round, right? These affirmations are all about love.

1. In all things, I choose love
2. My love for my family is eternal and abundant
3. I am surrounded by love
4. I give and receive love with ease
5. I am worthy of love because I am
6. My partner and I love to go on dates to reconnect
7. The unconditional love I receive from my spouse makes me a better person
8. I am loved more than I ever thought possible
9. I see love even in the smallest of gestures
10. I love doing things that make my partner happy
11. I tell my partner that I love him / her every day
12. I savor the feeling of being cherished by my partner
13. Love is always available to me
14. I love my partner for who they are
15. I am grateful for the love I have in my life
16. If I had to choose again, I would choose him / her
17. My partner and I have a romantic relationship
18. I easily express my romantic feelings to my partner
19. My partner is my soul mate
20. I am deeply lovable
21. I treat my partner with love and kindness
22. I am in a loving, lasting relationship.
23. I give and receive love and respect in my marriage
24. I deserve to be loved because I exist
25. I don’t have to do anything to be loved and happy
26. Our marriage will stay strong for the rest of our lives
27. My spouse and I love each other unconditionally
28. My partner and I both deserve to love and be loved
29. I feel loved, cherished, and secure in my relationship
30. My partner is worthy of love and respect
31. I love … about my partner (try these 101 reasons why I love you)
32. I love the thought of growing old with my spouse
33. I’m so grateful for the love in our home
34. My marriage is full of love and abundance
35. I love my partner forever and always
36. The love my partner and I share is powerful
37. The love my partner and I share grows stronger every day
38. Every day I love my partner more deeply
39. My loving marriage brings me safety and security
40. I love being in love and loved by my partner

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Relationship affirmations to bring back the spark

Back in the day you couldn’t take your hands off each other. Now? Not so much. These positive marriage affirmations help boost your physical attraction to each other.

1. My partner and I are highly attracted to each other
2. Being intimate with my partner feels so good
3. I find my partner highly desirable
4. My partner and I make time to be physically intimate
5. I love to explore what makes my partner feel good
6. I am very affectionate and loving towards my partner
7. Sensuality plays a big part in our relationship
8. Every day our relationship becomes more loving and passionate
9. My partner and I touch each other daily
10. I love spending intimate moments with my partner
11. I am physically attracted to my spouse
12. Our love life just gets better and better
13. I enjoy showing love physically to my partner
14. My partner and I are passionate about each other
15. I show my partner physical affection often
16. I love showing my partner physical affection
17. Our love life is a significant part of our relationship
18. I love trying new things in the bedroom
19. I enjoy planning how we can keep our love life exciting
20. Intimacy is important in our relationship
21. I love kissing my spouse
22. I love to flirt with my partner
23. Passion is important in our relationship
24. I love physically teasing my partner
25. It feels so good to desire and be desired by my partner

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Relationship affirmations to focus your priorities

It’s so easy to put your partner and your relationship on the back burner – especially when life gets hectic. These affirmations help put your focus back on your loved one.

1. I put effort in to making my marriage and family a priority
2. I put my husband/wife first and know they do the same for me
3. My love for my family is reflected in how I spend my time
4. My partner and I make sure to talk every day
5. My partner and I focus on our relationship daily by listening to each other and spending quality time together
6. When making decisions, the impact on our relationship is a top priority
7. I choose to prioritize my marriage and my husband/wife every day
8. I make space in my life for an incredible relationship
9. We practice 100% enthusiastic agreement
10. My husband / wife and my family come first
11. I show up for my family
12. I give my relationship the time and attention it deserves
13. My marriage is the most important thing in my life
14. My partner and I make time to talk through issues and problems
15. My actions reflect the value I place on my relationship

Affirmations are a fabulous way of improving the quality of your thoughts which improves the quality of your relationships. Consider adding them to your toolkit!

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