A back view of a woman in sexy black lingerie with a man's hands on her after asking these sex questions for couples.

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  1. I feel a lot of struggle with my sex life with my partner. I feel like we only do it just for the sake of it . She only makes out with me just to please me. I don’t know what to do

    1. Hi Dimma
      I’m sorry to hear that things aren’t going well in your sex life. It’s a very tough situation because the potential to have your feelings hurt is huge. We also don’t know if this is an ongoing issue for her or if it is something that has started in your relationship with her.
      Because of the complexity, if it’s a serious enough problem, I would be considering a sex therapist who works with couples in relationships. However if you have problems beyond this, more general marriage counseling may be in order. This article shares about what is involved in therapy: https://www.mysweethomelife.com/marriage-counseling-tips/. I wish you the best.

  2. What to do if partner just don’t want to answer to questions like that? He awoids the topic or make fun of it….

    1. Hi GG
      I’m so sorry you feel like you can’t talk about sex with your partner. This may be something you want to seek further advice and support with.

  3. maybe the questions are a bit to direct, and deterministic? My partner and I both agree that we are not a cookbook, add some standard ingredients and you have yourself a sex life. Honesty would be to admit that sex will always be more giving, than receiving. When that is no longer good enough, then maybe friendship or even separation is the way forward?

    1. Thanks for your perspective, Tel. Some people find having a list of questions they haven’t had to come up with themselves get good conversation and intimacy happening. It takes all kinds.

  4. Hi, I m married for 20 years and never felt to ask this question.
    The question is my wife doesn’t like sperm on her body, and touching it,
    even on the sheets.She just want to runs away / stay away from the sperm during /after sex.
    I feel my sex life is not complete, without her feeling the sperm.
    please help, what can I do.

    1. Hey Mike, if this problem has persisted for 20 years, with neither you nor your wife changing your feelings about it, you might want to consider getting some guidance from a professional, eg a sex therapist. Unfortunately, I’m not qualified to help you with this. Best of luck as I’m hearing how much it bothers you.

  5. I have been married for 21 years and I am 44 years old. When we got married he was so kind to me. After making love, he loved me more and would be so kind days after. But during the past 5years we make love and almost immediately after the love making ecstasy, if anything goes wrong or I say something, my husband can shout at me, argue with me and sometimes the evening ends with sadness for me. I feel so emotional about it because it seems the love making and foreplay didn’t mean anything to him.
    I feel he doesn’t love me anymore.

    1. Hey Adline, I wanted to say that this sounds really tough for you. You have a long history with your husband – basically half your life! and you obviously love him a lot. However how he is acting after you have been together is hurting you. Have you talked to him about this?

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